<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Is It Possible To Be Alpha With Bad Dating Game?</strong></h1>
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<p>I’m aiming square at the nexus of game – the core concepts of being an alpha male, or emulating alpha’s to enhance your game – the concept is that alpha’s get <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/New-Zealand-dating-service.html?gender=female">all the single chicks</a>, but it’s never been asked, as far as I know, whether being alpha is game? Or better yet, can alpha’s have bad game? Does the definition, either blue pill concepts, or red pill concepts of alpha’s actually employ bad game and still get chicks, or do they suffer the same fate as their beta counterparts and thus are actually beta, and not alpha at all? For starters, let’s look at the idea that Alpha’s walk around not giving a fuck, it’s a well known trait, one of the key emulated traits of the aspiring alpha’s, one of the main differentiators between emotional simpering beta’s, and their aloof uncaring counterparts. Is not giving a fuck going to get you laid on it’s own? This attitude in itself can lead to bad dating game. Saying something without the concern of a response can be either good game, or bad game, it can be a turn on or a turn off, but the sheer fact of caring whether it’s a turn on or turn off, well makes you kind of care, which isn’t very alpha, because you shouldn’t care.</p>
<h2><strong>Alpha Traits and Game Reality</strong></h2>
<p>An alpha also doesn’t care if he turns some women off, due to the fact that he can have so many other women, or has pussy he’s hitting anyway. But… by running bad game, despite the un-caring, he’s still running bad game, and thus some might say, not alpha. I often do what I feel like in the moment, and often times, run bad game either for a joke, my own amusement, or to prove something that I can relate here. Without trying all different tactics, it’s much harder to have a broader aspect of the dating game. But does running bad game itself mean you’re not alpha? A bystander or the girl(s) you’re interacting with may not think so.</p>
<p>One popular misconception is explored in <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/21/dating-advice-and-skepticism/">dating advice and skepticism</a> which sheds light on this balance.</p>
<h2><strong>Good Looking, Bad Game vs Average Guys</strong></h2>
<p>By seduction definitions, or modern times standards, the alpha is the guy who <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/New-Zealand-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=2">gets the most chicks</a>, or has the most chicks chasing him. But if you’re an alpha running bad game, you’re left with only the girls from afar tingling for you, not the girls you’re actively interacting with. The assumption is that a great looking guy can do no wrong and will get more lays just from being good looking. It should be known that good looking guys with bad game don’t match up to average guys with great game. They simply get more opportunities to bang more girls, and hotter ones, actually converting those to lays, is more reliant on game than it is looks, for we all know two things about women. They aren’t as motivated sexually on looks as guys are, and more turned on by <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/New-Zealand-dating-service.html?gender=male">a socially nuanced confident man</a>, than they are from just some good looking awkward chump.</p>
<p>This aspect is also examined in <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/08/17/the-myth-of-the-invulnerable-man/">the myth of the invulnerable man</a>, discussing how game and alpha traits mesh in practice.</p>
<p>Of course, it is dangerous for an alpha to run bad dating game, because at some point that becomes habit forming, especially if he’s still getting laid. If you learn bad habits, it’s much harder to get back on to good game, and much easier to slide into the lesser category and feel lost and confused.</p>
<p>For more insights on maintaining proper mindset and game, see <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/21/how-to-be-more-confident-and-have-tight-inner-game/">tight inner game</a>.</p>
<p>So what do you think? Is it possible to still be labelled Alpha, if you run bad game? Is Game and Alpha-ness reliant on each other, or are they two independent traits, that seem to mesh well? I look forward to your thoughts on the matter.</p>
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